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Good Articles for Breeders and Buyers

Post by Donna »


One of the most common complaints I hear is about hand-fed birds, that they are not as tame as the owner expects them to be. Many people assume hand-fed means tame but this is not necessarily the case. There are a number of very important factors that determine the tameness of a bird.


If a breeder simply fills a bird up with formula a few times a day then plops it back in the broader; they will not be properly socialized. However, such birds are usually somewhat comfortable with human handling and can be tamed with proper techniques. First and foremost I tell people to buy a bird that is already quite tame. Obviously a baby might be a bit nervous around you because you are a stranger, but it should not be utterly terrified. Biting and trying desperately to get away from even the person selling the bird to you. Socializing is an essential part of raising parrots. Can you imagine what human children would be like if we just gave them a bottle many times a day, but never handled them other than feedings and never interacted with them? We actually know what happens to such children: they develop what is called an attachment disorder. They have difficulty making bonds with other human beings and often exhibit antisocial behaviors as teenagers and adults.

Birds are flock creatures. They need to be part of a group. Their instinct to bond with another being is an essential part of their psychological makeup. Many behaviorists now believe that the emerging issues with unmanageable, destructive pet birds are due to the poor socialization techniques during the first few months of life. Research your source before buying a bird. Question sellers about how they socialize the bird. If they don’t know what you mean by socialize, it is better to look elsewhere.

Handling and playing with baby birds between feedings gets the bird used to human hands and teaches it about social interaction. Play is as essential to baby birds as it is to baby humans. I know that baby lovebirds crave attention. When you walk into the nursery they crowd up to the door begging for you to handle them. Ignoring this need does not make for happy, well-adjusted adult birds.

Timid birds

Some baby birds are a bit more timid than others. I have noticed dramatic differences in the personality of my birds even within the same clutch. Some need a little more caring a little more stroking and handling, to come out of their shell so to speak. I always make a point of taking these timid birds out by themselves and handling them away from their siblings. They become more secure after only a few days of this type of isolated playtime.

A New Bird in the Home

Don’t mistake a nervous newcomer for an untamed bird. Imagine what it is like to come into a new home, away from all your siblings, in a new cage with strange new toys and strange new human faces. It can be very frightening to a baby bird. There is an adjustment period, and you need to respect this birds need to reorient itself to the new environment and new flock members (you and your family). It is best not to over stimulate the bird during this period. It is stimulated enough by the change. Handle him during quiet times when you are sitting and there is little activity in the home. Don’t start walking all over the house with him on your shoulder of keeping him out of the cage for long periods. Make sure the bird knows where his food and water bowls are. Talk to it gently and calmly and move slowly. When you hold him, sit and stroke his head. Don’t make sudden movements or get up suddenly. Tell the bird what you are doing as you do it: verbal interaction is always an important part of your relationship with your pet bird. I don’t agree that the bird should not be handled for a few days, and in fact, I believe this to be a mistake. Simply handle you new bird with care and understanding. Return him to his cage after about fifteen minutes so he can eat and relax, then play with him again a little later.

The bad seed

You do occasionally hear about a bird that just doesn’t want to be handled and is miserable when you try to tame him. Are there birds that just aren’t appropriate as pets? I tend to think there may be. However, the cause is not clear. It could be basic genetics or it could be poor socialization techniques on the part of the breeder or hand feeder. However, even extremely aggressive, wild-caught amazons have been tamed into loving pets. It does seem that proper handling can work with many birds. If you are having and issue, it may be time to look for outside help. There are many avian behaviorists willing to come to your home and help you work with your bird.

The above article was printed off and Internet site owned by Vera Appleyard. Her site is all about Pet Birds with numerous articles on almost every bird topic imaginable.



By Amy Patria

You’ve fallen totally and deeply in love with that one special bird. It is soooo cute and sweet. Only thing is, it isn’t weaned yet. The breeder or pet shop clerk tell you if you buy it now, you can “easily” finish the hand feeding and your bond with the baby will be much closer because it will see you as a parent.

Does this sound familiar? It WON’T if you are working with a reputable store or breeder. Only irresponsible people will try to sell you on this idea. They are more concerned with their profits and losses than they are about you or the bird you are considering “adopting”.

A person who is inexperienced in hand feeding and the weaning process SHOULD NOT purchase a baby until it is fully weaned and has been eating on its own for at least one week to 10 days.

Don’t let the breeder or the pet store clerk convince you that you will have a closer bond to your new baby if you finish the hand feeding process! If the breeder properly socialized the baby during the hand-feeding period, they will bond closely to any human even after they are fully weaned. This is just a lazy breeder’s (pet shop owner’s) way of getting out of dealing with one of the most difficult periods of hand feeding. The possibility of the baby dying during the stress of weaning and the trouble of hand feeding a bird who doesn’t really want to still be fed but can’t maintain their weight without it are greatest at this time. This is when the diseases present themselves. DO NOT fall in this trap. You are being conned!

Have you heard of a bill of “goods”? Well, don’t buy this one!

The weaning process needs to be monitored (weight gain/loses, food intake, droppings, etc.) This cannot be done properly by a person who’s had no experience with hand feeding.

Weaning is a stressful period for the baby as well as the hand feeder. When a baby is under the stresses of weaning at the same times as they have to adjust to a completely new environment and schedules it leaves their systems open to too many opportunistic bacteria and some viruses. If you purchase a baby who has not been completely weaned by the breeder, you are taking a chance with the baby’s life being at stake. Nobody wants to lose the baby they have fallen so deeply in love with. The loss of your new baby would be hard enough to handle without the feelings of guilt you would feel from not knowing if you were in some way responsible for it’s death.

In my opinion, if a breeder sells a baby who isn’t weaned to an inexperienced person, the breeder is very irresponsible and doesn’t care about the baby, the buyer or their reputation.

If you want to be a good and responsible bird “parent”, PLEASE, DO NOT buy an unweaned bird. The bonding you’ll have with a well-socialized baby will be the same as if you had been the hand feeder the last few days. The rewards of waiting greatly outweigh the risks of not waiting.
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Post by Donna »

Lauren could you please make these articles a sticky?

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Post by bec »

great articles donna

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Post by ryelle »

This is some good info. You always find the most needed and informative material Donna :D
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Post by gemmm »


After a month of having my Alexandrine now...I took him to the vet as I was convinced there is something wrong.

I have learnt the hard way, and found out that my beautiful baby wasn't weaned properly. I have had experience with a quaker

before and am pretty confident with handling birds. However, I havent had experience with baby birds before. I bought Charlie at 8-

9 weeks old (according to the breeder). He said that it was onto solids and up to one hand feed at night. He said that Charlie

shouldnt need to be hand fed but gave me some bird food just incase. This entire month i have been stressed out about him and

tried to feed him at night but he didnt want the food. He has developed biting habits (whether he had them already I'll never

know...) My vet said he is slightly underweight. He weighs 200g and I don't want him to lose anymore. I fill his bowl up and

monitor him as much as I can. I am still so worried. I dont wont to have an untrsuting relationship with him or wake up and find a

dead bird. Yesterday, I tried mashing up biscuit with egg and water to see if he'd eat that but he wouldnt touch it.

I have contacted an animal behaviourist. Until then, anyone have any ideas or advice? I am so angry with this breeder and will be

contacting him after all the advice and information I have been reading.

Please tell me there is still hope for him? The poor little thing, I didnt realise how stressed he would be until I read your post.

Someone help!!

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Post by julie »

Try some baby food, something like apple and mango,pumpkin and sweet corn ect. heat it to between 35 to 40 and give to him with a syringe. you can add some formula to it to help with weight gain.

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Post by fei032 »

Yes, really good article.
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Post by jhebert9 »

Helpful article, thanks!
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Post by ellieelectrons »

I think anyone contemplating getting an IRN should read that article.

I can relate to what was said in this article. My first bird was handraised (Janey) and had been extensively socialised with people and within her clutch before we brought her home so she was not scared of us at all... and although she was weaned when we got her, I think it would have been better for her had we got her a little bit later - let her spend more time with her brothers and sisters. She was the first from her clutch that went to a new home. She's pretty good; but I think because of this she isn't always sure whether she's a bird or a human - she's not as bad as some birds that are completely human imprinted but she does display some neurosis when we leave the room, etc.

When we brought our second bird (Charlie) home - we were expecting a similar level of tameness but this wasn't the case. Although he had been handraised, the breeder hadn't socialised him as much and he was quite scared of us. He was also older. He had been flying for a few weeks and the breeder had clipped his wings at the end of that time. His fear of us took us by surprise after what we'd experienced with Janey but we persevered and now he's very tame too. He loves to be with Janey a little more than he loves to be with us. I think this is good as he spends 24/7 with her. He knows that he is a bird but also likes human companionship and he's turned into a very sweet bird. From memory, I think he settled down within two months of bringing him home.

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